PE Treatment – What Works and How to Use It
If premature ejaculation (PE) is messing with your confidence, you’re not alone. Luckily, there are several ways to slow things down, and most of them are easy to try at home or with a prescription. Below we break down the most common treatments, how to take them safely, and some quick habits that can boost results.
Medication Options
Prescription drugs are often the first stop for many men. The two main groups are selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) like dapoxetine and phosphodiesterase‑5 inhibitors (PDE5) such as tadalafil. Dapoxetine works by delaying the ejaculatory reflex; the usual dose is 30 mg taken one hour before sex, but some people stay on 60 mg after a doctor’s approval. Tadalafil (often known as Cialis) isn’t a direct PE cure, but it improves blood flow and can make the whole sexual experience smoother, especially when combined with an SSRI.
Topical anesthetics are another drug‑free alternative. Products with lidocaine or benzocaine are applied to the penis 10–15 minutes before intercourse, then washed off. They numb the area just enough to delay climax without killing sensation. If you choose a spray or cream, start with a lower concentration to avoid over‑numbing.
Non‑Drug Strategies
Behavioural techniques can be surprisingly effective. The “stop‑start” method involves stimulating the penis until you feel close to climax, then stopping for about 30 seconds before resuming. Repeating this a few times helps you recognise the point of no return and gain better control. The “squeeze” technique is similar: just before ejaculation, gently squeeze the head of the penis for a few seconds until the urge eases.
Pelvic floor exercises (Kegels) also play a role. Strengthening the pubococcygeus muscle gives you more control over ejaculation. Try tightening the muscles you’d use to stop urinating, hold for three seconds, then relax. Do three sets of ten reps daily, and you’ll start noticing steadier performance within a few weeks.
Lifestyle tweaks matter too. Reducing alcohol, quitting smoking, and staying active improve overall circulation and nerve function, which can lessen PE symptoms. Managing stress with mindfulness or short breathing exercises right before sex can stop the anxiety‑driven rush that often triggers early climax.
When mixing treatments, always check for interactions. Combining an SSRI with a PDE5 inhibitor is common, but you should talk to a doctor to avoid side effects like dizziness or low blood pressure. If you’re using a topical anesthetic, avoid applying it with an oral medication that also lowers sensation, as the combo might be too strong.
Bottom line: start with the simplest approach—behavioural techniques and lifestyle changes—then consider a medication if results stay modest. Always follow dosage guidelines, keep a short journal of what works, and discuss any concerns with a healthcare professional. With the right mix, you can regain control and enjoy a more relaxed, confident sexual life.
